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Robert S Gordon, PhD, MFT overall services and the kinds of psychotherapy and counseling that we practice: • In-depth individual therapy – that addresses, and resolves the roots of your problems – so that they are unlikely to remain as obstacles in the future. • Brief and short term-therapy – to develop a specific solution to a specific problem. • Couples therapy – as a means to strengthen the bond of your couple and/or marriage. • Family therapy – as a path toward restoring, rebuilding, and transforming family relationships. • How to recognize and realize which aspects of your self and your life have been lived as false and not in accord with your deepest sense of who you are. • How to develop your self, maturity, and presence through all of your life. • How to transform your life so that you life so that it is lived in accord with your deepest values, with what you are becoming, and what you truly are.

Robert S Gordon, PhD, MFT overall services and the kinds of psychotherapy and counseling that we practice: • In-depth individual therapy – that addresses, and resolves the roots of your problems – so that they are unlikely to remain as obstacles in the future. • Brief and short term-therapy – to develop a specific solution to a specific problem. • Couples therapy – as a means to strengthen the bond of your couple and/or marriage. • Family therapy – as a path toward restoring, rebuilding, and transforming family relationships. • How to recognize and realize which aspects of your self and your life have been lived as false and not in accord with your deepest sense of who you are. • How to develop your self, maturity, and presence through all of your life. • How to transform your life so that you life so that it is lived in accord with your deepest values, with what you are becoming, and what you truly are.

Psychotherapy is a process requiring deep and penetrating looks into who we are and how we became so. Once we understand ourselves and our partners at the deepest level we have built a foundation for lasting change. Cleaning up the past helps us clear up the future. My job, as I see it, is to help clients identify the subtle but powerful deeper causes, those patterns of coping and relating, that lie at the core of their difficulties, having accomplished that my job is to facilitate substantive conversation about the deeper issues. The deeper issues are revealed by looking at the attachment history of each partner and how those patterns bear on the current issues.